Stop Blaming Millennials for Unrealistic Employee Expectations

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Here’s a situation that may feel like déjà vu to some. You have just concluded a difficult conversation with Tim, one of your software developers; while Tim works hard, he is certainly not your best developer.

Yet, he just left your office wondering why he has not been given a raise in the last four months.  The irony?  Tim has only been with your organization for five. You slowly exhale, wondering how in the world you ended up with that set of unrealistic expectations.

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Stop Blaming Millennials for Unrealistic Employee Expectations

Your immediate answer is that Tim is a millennial, and that’s just what millennials do, right?  Well, check your privilege at the door.  The real reason is that we, as leaders, have become lazy in one critical area.  We fail to properly align expectations from the beginning.  One of my business partners teaches that when it comes to certain key conversations, do not communicate in order to be understood; rather, communicate so that you will not be misunderstood. In fairness, I think he was paraphrasing President William Howard Taft.

My other business partner takes a more academic approach.  His view is that in the absence of carefully explained employer expectations, it’s the employee’s expectations that will take over and control the relationship.

He’s right. Aristotle is credited with the notion that nature abhors a vacuum.  The same holds true with relationships, whether business or personal.  When there is a lack of expectations, then the parties will find some to use, regardless of whether they are fair, rational, related, or even intended.

So, back to my story.  It isn’t because Tim is a flannel-shirt-wearing, bushy-bearded millennial.  The reason is you! When Tim came on board, it was probably done in a rush.  Your fast-growing start-up couldn’t seem to find enough qualified developers.  You were just thankful he showed up at the appointed time and was ready to work.  You gave him a stitched-together employee handbook your sister-in-law copied from the credit union where she works, and you had him sign a non-compete agreement you found on the internet.  That’s good enough, right? You, then showed him to a desk in your offices, and you moved on to the next fire smoldering in your inbox.

What you didn’t realize is that you gave him a seat next to David, your star developer who happens to be employee #3 in your organization.  David was promoted three times during his first six months.  Mostly because David is talented and deserved it, but once because there was no one else to take the job.  Now that you think about it, it’s fairly easy to see where Tim might have gotten the impression that promotions and pay raises happen frequently around your place.

So, there you are­–– stuck with Tim’s expectations simply because you failed to carefully define your own.  Imagine, if you will, that you had taken an additional ten minutes with Tim on his first day.  You could have explained to him that you do not consider promotions or pay raises within the first year.  You tell him that you want to take that time to really see what he will bring to the table.  Not only did you just give yourself some runway to work with, but you also gave Tim a reason to stay motivated and hungry for a reasonable period of time.

My scenario with Tim doesn’t just happen in tech start-ups.  It happens with seasoned HR managers, as well.  Too often we fail to think about and then define our critical expectations.  This means that we will likely have to deal with the other side’s unilateral expectations in the future, whether we like them or not.

My point with all of this is that good leaders take the time to ensure that expectations are properly aligned, ideally from the beginning.  This includes employee relationships, but it also applies to other areas, such as mergers and acquisitions, system implementations, changes in strategy, and various other scenarios.  Good outcomes in business usually begin with expectation alignment, whereas bad outcomes are often created or made worse by unmet expectations.

In summary, take the time to align expectations.  It’s worth it! And, millennials will thank you for treating them like the adults they are.

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Forget the Millennials, It's All About the Freelancers

There is an old saying among real estate developers, “You don’t build the church for Easter!”  In other words, when designing seating capacity, the incremental cost required to accommodate outlying scenarios is not worth the investment. For decades, conventional wisdom has held that this same principle is true as managers design their organization’s workforce. You can’t accommodate every demand, right?  Management does its best to meet a majority of its employees’ needs and stops there.

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Yet, when it comes to workforce planning, we now confront a dynamic where one group of workers might be content with an established set of rules, while another group is looking for something completely different.

And in today’s social-media culture, the age-old premise that “majority wins” is no longer viewed as acceptable. We are accustomed to having the ability to manipulate and define a long list of preferences and settings. It now appears that when it comes to your workforce you really do have to build the church for Easter. It is expected that modern and progressive companies will implement workforce solutions that meet most of their workers’ needs.

But, that’s the here and now. What about tomorrow?

One of the fastest growing segments of the workforce is freelance workers, with one estimate saying that 34% of the workforce is now comprised of contingent workers.  I call these individuals “gig” workers. Gig workers are not looking for a traditional employment relationship with a single company; instead, they prefer to set their own schedule and to work on discreet projects for a variety of companies and clients. Uber, Lyft, and to a certain extent, Airbnb, have successfully built their businesses on this burgeoning movement. Instead of relying on a corporate HR department to come up with innovative solutions, gig workers create and define their own workplace vision.

Studies suggest that Millennials are interested in a different concept of work-life-balance. Quality of life is a key goal, with plenty of free time and the ability to stay close to family and friends. Social issues and volunteerism matter, too. If these are the primary goals, then what can beat the ultimate flexibility afforded a gig worker?  It seems reasonable to expect a strong shift towards a contingent workforce model.

Not all of the benefits of freelancing solely benefit the the gig worker. Organizations also benefit from a contingent workforce in that it is much easier to manage costs and to control the process of scaling up or down.

Reductions in force will be less costly and disruptive, as it’s much less painful to turn off the spigot of work rather than conducting a mass layoff.
Yet it remains to be seen whether companies will be able to derive real value from this emerging labor pool. Certainly the pool will include talented workers with broad experience. The challenge will be whether broad experience can serve as a substitute for deep institutional knowledge. Also, a visionary who is on the outside as a freelancer loses the chance to harness and channel the resources that large organizations are able provide. Would the iPhone exist today if it had been left to a group of freelancers to drive the project to fruition?  What happens when a key engineer indicates she is done for the summer so she can travel to to Tibet?

Another potential pitfall is the mismatch between short-term and long-term consequences.  For example, a contingent worker might be fully invested in a particular project for which she has a strong interest, but she might overlook concerns that could negatively impact the organization from a long-term perspective.  It will be a challenge to get contingent workers to not only buy-in to the project, but also to buy-in to the company’s vision.

It goes without saying that business leaders will be faced with a new set of challenges as we experiment with a growing contingent workforce. Here is a trivial example: it won’t really matter whether you stock the break room with soda or juices. The gig worker stocks his own refrigerator with whatever his wants. Setting aside the humor, though, the larger challenge will be (apart from what will surely be a tangled mass of legal and tax consequences) how do managers evaluate, coach, motivate, direct and otherwise lead a workforce segment that is wholly or partially disengaged from the underlying organization?  In this sense, management will have to rely on its leadership abilities far more than in the past. No longer will the threat of losing one’s employment help ensure that workers stay in line with managements’ desires. Gig workers have the privilege of simply saying “no.”

At least in the debate between the Millennials, Generation X, and the Baby Boomers, one important characteristic remained the same. In a sense, the employer “owned” the employee. While that concept sounds draconian, it is true that in a traditional employer-employee relationship, the employer gets to control where, when and how the employee does his or her work. It really will be a brave new world when you think about the gig workers’ flexibility and the power they have to redefine the employment relationship. The way we work and how organizations create output may be dramatically different in 20 years.

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